These days I have tried to increase my social circle so that I can change my employment status from unemployed to employed. However this has led me to a very important revelation. Its not exactly a revelation but kind of a reaffirmation of the fact that being Pakistani , in the outside world can be a liability rather than a privilege.
I recently met this guy at a telecom consulting company in Riyadh. He was Pakistani from top to toe. However I sensed something different about him. There was this aura of arrogance emanating from him. He looked Pakistani. He talked Pakistan, but no he did not feel Pakistani. I have not met many Pakistanis that have an internal pride. But he was different. In our conversation he kept mentioning how he did his masters from Australia and how that has helped him landing a well , very very lucrative package. I couldn’t buy his story . I started an inquisition of some sorts . I told him I have many friends with a foreign education but none could land a job as you did. He grinned and said well people don’t really know the key to success here. I was curious, and asked him to elaborate. He said people over here value the nationality rather than your skills. Its kind of a marketing campaign that helps companies get contracts by telling the world we have a western employee at our company. And thus it became obvious that he was a proud aussie now and not really a Pakistani. And that was a point where flashbacks started to storm my brain. I suddenly remembered how all Pakistanis are treated like untamed animals at the airports of this friendly country. I then remembered how a country happily pays 30000 riyal per month to a western employee but would not employ a single Pakistani for more than 6000 at the same post. I also remembered my friends telling me that they have to face constant questioning at European airports and from the European society in general just because they are ,well , Pakistani. And thus it became clearer to me , that the people of the world have mentally deteriorated to a level where their racist thoughts value one nationality over the other .
I kept hearing his marvelous adventures at the Australian embassy but his story made apparent to me that most of us have already sold our souls to materialism and now we are beginning to sell our pride and nation as well just to please a few racist minds. I don’t know if I would have been any different if I was in his shoes , because in all sincerity , Pakistanis are perhaps the only people in the world who get a horrid time both in their own country and abroad. And seeing how we treat our citizens in Pakistan , some question whether we really are Pakistanis or not ?
That’s a difficult question to answer for it would seem in our homeland , Pakistanis are but a few feudals who rule us like slaves. Many people are emancipated from this slavery when they get a foreign nationality. It’s a sad predicament that we have to face but I still strongly believe that its not enough ,yet, to sell our home land just for the pleasure of some twisted , racist minds.
Dear Usman;
ReplyDeleteI have followed your email dated 22 Nov and reached this this blog.
The feelings that you have expressed indicate your sensitive and concerned nature; you have echoed the thoughts and frustration of every Pakistani .... and believe me, older people, who like you have spent the last 50 years (I am discounting the years till my eleventh birthday)....
We need to look inwards and see why our national standing is so low .... why we are at the lowest stage of our societal development ....
Let us do a little exercise .... and self evaluate ... and the answer will come out clearly .... as a society we have always sought the easy way out ... we need to read history of other nations and the struggles they have gone through to reach their societal development .... Let us stop whining and take up the courage to work at whatever is available .... and then grow from there ... would you as an engineer like to work as a waiter in a restaurant till you get a job as an engineer ???? in the west they do .... Ask this guy who now has an Austarlian passport how he survived there was he free loading on his father or he drove taxis at night to pay for his tution .... for the majority of us who were not born with a silver spoon in their mouths ...life is and will remain a struggle .... and this is true for most of the self made individuals in the world ... the only difference is that that they learn to face hardships and survive since they do not have fathers to support them for long .... and eventually success is their fate ....
Perseverence and hard work always pays ....
I guess you being in Riyadh is indicative of the fact that you have a job or you have some one looking over for you ... so be content and strive for better .... you should compete with yourself and grow ... hard times will actually make you a Steve Jobs .... Do read his struggles too and the kind of hours he spent working .... LET US BE HONEST AND JUDGE WHETHER WE WORK EVEN 10% of how hard he has worked ... AND WHEN WE WORK AS HARD AS HE DID WE WILL BE FINE TOO....
Dear Sir ,
ReplyDeleteI whole heartedly agree with what you have to say and truly we lack hard work. I was just mentioning over here how some people think being a "national" of some country could make a difference . There are people in this world who value one nation over the other .
You may want to read this as well :
http://chroniclesofnust.blogspot.com/2010/09/one-day-twain-shall-meet.html
Its really an honour for me that you even read the blog ...let alone comment on it.
Thank you sir .
Usman
Dear Usman;
ReplyDeleteThe standing of a Country in the comity of Nations dictates how other rate that country .... again we will have to work hard to change that image ... it will not happen automatically ... Alo please do not address me as SIR ... but Saleem or if you feel comfortable as Asst Prof Saleem ... Thanks